All my life, I have been an Open Book, whether it's about my significant failures or my minor successes. I've received plenty of advice from people, urging me not to be so vocal, and not to share everything with others. Perhaps, at times, I've contemplated it, as I've been inundated with suggestions to suppress my true self, the person I am at my core. This morning, as I savored my favorite cup of tea, I found myself pondering whether being myself—an Open Book—has done more harm or more good to my life. 😊
After some reflection and deep introspection, all I've discerned is what I'm about to share with you. 🤔Ultimately, it's entirely your prerogative to decide what resonates best with you. My only goal is to be authentic and true to myself, and I encourage you to do the same.
Paulo Coelho, in 'The Alchemist,' asserts, "When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you achieve it." The universe comprises not only the greater power but also our immediate ecosystem. The universe doesn't engage in telepathy; it necessitates us stepping out of our comfort zones, seeking help, discussing ideas, and taking action. Shouting out loud what you want to achieve holds immense power—the Universe, the people around you, and your immediate ecosystem—all become aware of your desires and work collaboratively to help you attain them.
As I continued to ponder what might have become of me if I hadn't been vocal, if I'd refrained from sharing my desires, if I hadn't been an Open Book, I realized that I might have been closed, fearful, insecure, and hesitant. What if I had withheld my pages, not allowing people to look, know, feel, smell, and understand the story they contained? Some pages may have been torn, some greasy, and some glossy, but they all belonged to my Open Book.
Had I been a closed book, uncertain and unwelcoming, I might have repelled some bibliophobes, but I would have missed out on many avid readers who appreciated the genre my Open Book offered. These readers often helped me refine my words, proofread my pages, and enrich my content. Had I chosen to be a closed book, I would have refrained from sharing my experiences, my mistakes, and my life's lessons. If I had dismissed the idea of sharing my goals, dreams, and roadmaps due to fear of rejection or mockery, I would have been nothing more than a closed book sitting on a shelf, uncomfortable and quietly waiting for someone to dust me off.
Most importantly, I wouldn't have had the courage to write here and now. I wouldn't have embarked on the path of self-discovery, despite all the challenges, difficulties, and pressures. These are the top five blessings I've experienced by being an Open Book:
1. Vulnerability: Embracing vulnerability allowed me to connect with kindred spirits. Choosing to be closed would have deprived me of genuine connections. 💬
2. Risk-Taking 🌟: By consistently putting myself out there, I've embraced more risks, challenged myself, and expanded my comfort boundaries, resulting in greater experiences.
3. Accountability: The moment I decided to share my desires with my ecosystem, I became more credible, accountable, humble, and approachable.
4. Shedding Insecurities 🌱: Facing yourself and your peers requires a significant effort. Not everyone will like you, but the beauty lies in personal growth and development.
5. Finding Your Clan 🤝: On my journey of being an Open Book, I met like-minded people. I say "mine" because I chose to be open, accessible, and true to myself.
What is yours will always be yours. Don't let fear deter you from being flexible, open, and fully alive. The mystery sounds cool, but to be able to live fully, expand, and empower people, you have to try at least once to be an OPEN BOOK.
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