There are times in all of our lives when we feel stuck or are completely blown away by the challenges that life throws in our faces⛈️. Nevertheless, life is never easy for anyone. However, there are times when we are brought to our lowest, at least we assume that to be so. Times when the tide is going against us, and nothing seems to work out the way we planned. We desire things to be different. We presume that life is unfair and has broken us entirely, which, in reality, which, in reality, is often temporary.
No matter how defeated we feel or how rock-bottom we may have hit, we can always overcome our current situation and rediscover ourselves; Only if we want to, and if we think we can! 💪
Needless to say, I have found myself in such situations countless times and continue to do so, for that is how life is meant to be. In the Urdu language, there's a saying, 'Harkat mein hi Barkat Hai,' which translates to 'There is a blessing in the action itself'. Actions do translate into mishaps; actions do face hardships and defeat. But the great part is that they never go in vain. They are a crucial part of the overall process, the overall journey, and it is the efforts, and the actions that actually will make us the kind of humans we will end up becoming.
I look at myself and those around me and list down these 8 points in an attempt to lift up anybody's spirits most in need of these words and affirmations. And also, to gather the strength myself to be able to take the journey head-on. Let us see if these pointers do their job and make you and me rethink our current mental state. 🧩
1. This too shall pass: It always helps to look back at times that were maybe worse than the current one, and like a superhero, we were able to manage through. However, it is our choice to make this one a memorable and powerful process of self-discovery and resilience, or a painful, mediocre, and melodramatic event.
2. Support Ecosystem: Step outside your safe cocoon and find yourself a strong, genuine community focused on personal growth. Connecting with people from different fields keeps our minds open to opportunities and different perspectives on the same issue.
3. Mentor matters: Never shy away from asking for counsel or seeking guidance from people who have already walked down this path. It is absolutely fine not to dwell on the same problem and to adopt the proven methods of our chosen mentors. Navigate your situation by seeking help.
4. Pray Harder: The Universe has a purpose in subjecting us to difficult circumstances in life; it wants us to connect with ourselves, connect with the greater power, and exercise faith in times of crisis. Not just faith in ourselves, but faith in the power above.
5. Reject thoughts of Lack: Never let thoughts of lack, negativity, and self-deprecation seep in. These thoughts will not only tarnish our present but also ruin our future. A chain of 'lack-thoughts' will only infuse fear and paralyze our minds and souls.
6. Gratitude mindset: No matter what muddle you and I might be in, we still have numerous things to be thankful for. The air we breathe, the limbs we use, and the morsel we eat are all blessings indeed. Being constantly in a state of gratitude allows us to recognize that we already have a lot.
7. Think Abundance: When you eliminate defeatist thoughts and appreciate being alive, it becomes much easier to trust the greater energy out there. Resources are abundant in the Universe, waiting to be given to the most gallant of all. You and I must remember, 'What you seek is seeking You.' The moment we shift from lack- thoughts to an abundant mindset, we prepare ourselves to receive what we truly deserve.
8. Show Empathy: When we look around, we always find people who are facing bigger challenges than any of us. Be compassionate toward them and deeply feel what they are going through. This is a profound way to realize that we are definitely not the only ones going through the drill.
Consciously and sub-consciously, strive to become the person you want to be, for your current situation is definitely not your final destination. Stay strong, choose grace, single out resilience, and embrace your challenges with love, care, gratitude, and joy. And never lose sight of the one question that sparks in all of our hearts and moves our souls.
Ask yourself, in the style of the famous dialogue from the recent movie 'Jawan'...
Main Kaun Hoon?
If we persist and keep asking, answers will flood in.
🦋 For our lives are all about decoding this epic question...
Main Kaun Hoon? Who am I?
Do not be lost in the storms of your life. Go and find yourself! 🌄
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